Dry Vulvas: It’s a Thing - Let’s Talk About It
Midlife brings so many changes. Some we expect, some we don’t talk about enough and others hit us like a cement truck without breaks. Hormonal changes can cause dry skin, changes in hair, sleep disturbances, the hot flashes and all those common ones we know about. But there’s one topic that’s often swept under the rug, even though it’s so common: vaginal dryness. Lets break the stigmas, and let’s talk about it.
Breaking the Stigma of Dryness
As women, we often face an unspoken expectation to remain silent about the changes our bodies undergo as we age. But at Slyde Body London, we are a team of women on a mission to break those barriers and talk about all of it. Vaginal dryness, dry vulvas, intimacy sensitive and irritation. Vaginal dryness happens to many of us, especially as we go through motherhood, perimenopause, and beyond. It's completely normal, yet it’s something that many of us feel reluctant to bring up, even with our closest friends.
Dryness isn’t something to be ashamed of; it’s a sign that our bodies are evolving. It happens to over 50% of women post-menopause, and affects many others before that too. But despite how common it is, there's still too little conversation around it. We're here to change that narrative. This isn’t a story about shame—it's about understanding, accepting, and supporting ourselves and each other through all the stages of midlife.
Why Vaginal Dryness Happens
The truth is, vaginal dryness is caused by natural changes in our hormones, particularly estrogen. Estrogen is the hormone that keeps the tissues of the vulva and vagina healthy, lubricated, and elastic. When estrogen levels start to dip, which typically happens during peri-menopause, menopause, or while breastfeeding, those tissues can become thinner, drier, and more delicate.
There’s also a myriad of other potential culprits: certain medications, stress, dehydration, and even the chemicals in some soaps and lotions can throw our natural balance out of whack. It’s not just about hormones—sometimes, our modern lifestyle can make things more complicated than they need to be. The bottom line is: if you’re experiencing dryness, you are not alone, there are options and it’s absolutely not your fault.
The Emotional Side of Dryness
Dealing with a dry vulva can feel isolating and like there is something wrong with us. It can affect how we feel about intimacy, our confidence, and even our relationship with our bodies. For some women, dryness can make physical intimacy uncomfortable, even painful, and that can lead to a sense of disconnection—from partners, but also from our own sense of pleasure and sensuality.
We don’t talk about the emotional impact of vaginal dryness enough. It’s not just a physical issue; it’s also an emotional one. When our bodies no longer respond the way we’re used to, it’s easy to feel like something is wrong, or that we’re less capable of enjoying intimacy. But dryness doesn’t mean an end to sensuality or a full, vibrant intimate life. Instead, it’s an opportunity to discover new ways to support our bodies and reconnect with what brings us joy.
Finding Solutions, No Shame
That’s where Slyde Body London comes in. We believe in celebrating the joys of midlife and embracing the changes our bodies go through. Our Intimate Elixir Duo Set was designed specifically for women in midlife, crafted with care to provide gentle support, comfort, and a renewed sense of sensuality. It’s more than just a lubricant—it’s a part of a holistic approach to embracing and enhancing pleasure during the changes of life.
Our water-based lubricant is made with natural ingredients, chosen specifically to soothe dryness and support your body’s needs. It also contains gentle arousal enhancing ingredients, which encourages wetness and sensation and helps you feel more connected to your own body. Using a high-quality, luxurious product like our Intimate Elixir isn’t just about addressing dryness; it’s about nurturing yourself in a meaningful, intimate way.
The Natural Ingredients That Support You
We use natural ingredients because we believe our bodies deserve the very best. Our formula is free from harsh chemicals, artificial fragrances, synthetic additives or preservatives and anything that might disrupt your natural pH balance. Instead, we harness the power of nature to create something gentle, effective, and luxurious. Without obligation and for you whenever and however you choose.
Key ingredients like seaweed extract, tremella and slippery elm extract provide a soothing touch, while nourishing and hydration support for your skin’s moisture levels. We carefully selected each element to enhance your comfort while supporting the delicate balance of the vulva and vaginal area. Our gentle arousal blend uses safe, plant-derived components to awaken sensation and encourage natural lubrication, helping you feel more in touch with your sensual side.
Empowering Conversations Around Intimacy
Talking about dryness, intimacy, and the changes of midlife might feel a bit awkward. It can be hard to bring it up and ask for help or know when to start. But here’s the truth—by opening up these conversations, we empower ourselves and others to feel less alone and more connected. When we share our stories, we reduce the shame and the stigma, and we help build a community where women can thrive. That is the power of women together, connected and open to sharing within our tribes.
Dryness is just one part of the conversation, but there is so much more to our sensuality and well-being. By acknowledging things that are happening, our changes and things we need and then finding supportive solutions, we create space for more joy and more pleasure. Midlife is not an end—it’s a beginning, a chance to rewrite how we feel about our bodies and embrace the incredible transformations we’re going through.
Self-Care as an Act of Joy
Self-care is an essential act of love. For many of us, taking care of our intimate needs can feel like an afterthought, especially when we’re juggling careers, family, motherhood and the other demands of midlife. But choosing to care for ourselves, to prioritise our comfort and pleasure, can be a radical and beautiful act.
Using Slyde Body's Intimate Elixir and Duo Set is about more than addressing dryness; it’s about taking a moment to honour your body, to listen to what it needs, and to celebrate the joy of intimate connection—whether with a partner or simply with yourself. It’s about remembering that pleasure is your birthright, at every stage of life.
Building a Community of Midlife Women
At Slyde Body London, we’re committed to creating a community where midlife women can share, learn, and thrive together. Our mission is to break down the stigma and to change the way we talk about intimacy, ageing, and our bodies. Dryness, hormones, motherhood, vaginas, menopause, and all the changes we go through are natural, and they’re nothing to hide. Let’s replace silence with shared stories and replace shame with support.
We want to invite you to join the conversation. Let’s talk about our bodies and our experiences, and let’s celebrate the journey together. Whether you’re experiencing vaginal dryness, new sensual awakenings, or anything in between, Slyde Body is here for you.
The Slyde Body Promise
Our Intimate Elixir & Duo Set is just the beginning. We promise to continue creating products that empower women in midlife to feel confident, comfortable, and connected to themselves. We understand that your needs are unique, and that’s why we’re committed to crafting luxurious, premium products that meet you where you are. Made for women, by women.
Together, we can celebrate the joy in midlife, support each other through the changes, and create a world where women’s wellness is prioritised, supported, and embraced. Dry vulvas? Yes, it’s a thing. And it’s time we talked about it—because you deserve to feel good, always.
Lets Rediscover, Redefine and Reclaim our Intimacy
If you’re ready to embrace the joy and comfort you deserve, Slyde Body’s products are here for you. Made with natural, gentle ingredients and designed specifically with midlife in mind, our product aims to support you in rediscovering the sensual connection that brings happiness and fulfilment. Let’s change the narrative together, and celebrate what makes us feel alive.
Because midlife, our bodies, our pleasure is ours and deserve to be celebrated—and you deserve every moment of the good stuff.